My husband and I met for a long time before getting married and having a child. Therefore, the desire to pregnant was conscious and very desirable. I don’t know in connection with what, but together we really wanted a daughter with my spouse. I understand that this is not right, as many say, the main thing is that the baby is born healthy. But, we decided to try to conceive the girl.
I read a large number of articles on this subject on the Internet, various tables were given more and more, repulsive from the date of birth of parents. In my opinion, this is nonsense. Things completely unrelated to each other. Then I turned to my gynecologist with such a question. She told me how this can be done from the point of view of biology.
A man is laid down to the child, depending on the spermatozoa that carries this information. X-chromosome is a girl, and a y chromosoma is a boy. In terms of its properties, they are different, the X-chromosome is quite living, it can fertilize the egg for 3 days, and the Y chromosome is the fastest, but if the fertilization did not occur immediately, it dies instantly. From all this follows, if you need a child of a certain gender, you need to guess with fertilization, if you need a girl, make conception a day or two before the alleged ovulation, and if a boy, then on the day of ovulation. The most difficult thing in this task is to determine when this very ovulation will be.
I have a stable menstrual cycle, almost day a day. I bought special tests for determining the day of the beginning of ovulation for three consecutive months in order to understand what day after the end of menstruation it begins. Through this test, I found out that it was 7-8 days. And for the fourth month my husband and I began the process of conception on the 6th day of the beginning of the new cycle. I got pregnant right away, the pregnancy test the simplest immediately showed two strips. Could not wait with her husband for 16 weeks to find out the gender of the child. Of course, the kid would be glad when she was pregnant, she immediately remembered that saying that it was not important who, the main thing is that the healthy.
As a result, our method did not fail us, ultrasound showed us that we are waiting for my daughter. I don’t know something to say concrete about the fact that the method is difficult, but we did. To date, our daughter is already 1.8. And we are very happy. Now it’s time to think about the kid.
