Many mothers are worried about the question whether it is possible to start a pet if a child was only born in the family. Your site will have a child will bring several arguments, and decide to start you or not.
1. Do not start an animal from a short -term desire or whim of a child. Do not follow the sellers of animals in the “bird market” who are trying to convince you that the animals they offer are easy to handle, and they need minimal care.
The animal, in turn, be small and in appearance not attractive, may be very demanding and it will need a lot of care.
Various exotic animals, such as newtons or lizards, die in a matter of weeks in the apartments of the hosts who do not have special experience with such animals.
If such a situation is repeated more than once or two, and in the presence of a small child, the psychological injuries of the child can be very difficult to predict.
2. If the animal lives in the family for a long time, the child begins to perceive him as a family member, and the death of the animal may be a real tragedy for the child. Before you buy a pet, read the relevant literature, specify the duration of the animal life.
For example, rats and hamsters, life expectancy of about three years. If the animal is aging and getting sick in front of the child, he may not withstand such a sight.
3. Try to buy a small child with a pet with whom he can play, which he can iron, t. To. Touching a delicate wool is caused only by pleasant and delicate sensations.
A poet, for example, a turtle, is not the best choice for a pet. A turtle, not a fluffy, her reactions are not predictable, it can be aggressive, and most importantly, it requires such a care that ordinary buyers of pet stores do not know.
4. Some parents suggest that the acquisition of a pet, raises parental feelings from their child.
But, for example, the acquisition of a rabbit, and the education of the child’s parental feelings in communicating with him, do not suggest that the child in the future will become a wonderful father.
The treatment of the animal creates only the relationship of the child and the animal. This experience will become the experience of communication between a strong and weak character, as well as experience can be both positive and negative.
